A good sense of humor can be a tremendous blessing.
I crawled into bed sometime in the wee hours of the morning on Valentine's day. I snuggled up close to my husband of 21 and 3/4 years who had been in bed for quite a while. Scott is a pretty deep sleeper and just to lay a little ground work here, he can say some pretty crazy things then have no recollection of it the next day. He turned over towards me and mumbled something about alarm systems and timers (work stuff). I asked him what he was talking about. He stopped mumbling looked at me and queried, "You again?"
I am sure there are a number of possible reactions to such a question. It cracked me up. It helped that the flowers came first.